Many of us feel this way in our 20s, 30s or even 40s. So much of our early lives are spent reacting to what happens around us that we often develop an outer focus for who we are instead of an inner one. Your current situation is a wonderful opportunity to begin to look within yourself to discover who you really are. It may seem baffling at first but start with little things such as what foods do you like? Colors? Movies? Books? Pay close attention to your dreams, since our dreams are excellent doors into the unconscious. With some applied effort, you should be able to extract “you” from your sense of what others expect you to be. Watching people begin to find themselves is always exciting. Once the door is opened, it’s as if the true self which has been repressed for years, comes bounding out with amazing zest and enthusiasm. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s definitely worth the wait.